Mornings That Matter: How I’m Taking Control of My Time and My Life

It’s that time of year again—school’s back in session, and the rhythm of life shifts once more. But instead of letting the hustle take control, I’m flipping the script. These days, I’m up an hour and a half earlier, claiming the morning as mine before the world demands my attention. It’s not about being some sort of superhuman; it’s about necessity—my necessity to breathe, think, and plan before the chaos begins.

As I watch the sun rise, there’s a moment of clarity that’s hard to capture when the day’s noise kicks in. My quiet time isn’t just a luxury; it’s my strategy. I pray, reflect, and map out my day with intention. The house may be still, but my mind is alive, firing on all cylinders. This is where I set the tone—not just for the day, but for the life I’m building.

After these sacred moments, I shift gears and step into my role as mom. Dropping my son off at school isn’t just another task on the to-do list; it’s a highlight. His excitement is contagious, his energy relentless. Watching him navigate the social minefield of school, learning who his real friends are and discovering the power of his own voice—it’s a lesson in resilience. It’s a reminder to align with people who truly have your back, who push you to be better, who challenge you to rise up.

These lessons apply to my world too. As a creative entrepreneur, the noise can be overwhelming. There are countless writers, filmmakers, copywriters, children’s book authors out there, all hustling for their spot.

But here’s the thing: I don’t want to blend in. I’m not here to play by the old rules. I’m here to rewrite them. This is why I’m taking control of my time and my life by embracing mornings that matter.

The key isn’t in chasing every trend or mimicking what worked a decade ago. It’s about finding my own rhythm, my own voice, and using it unapologetically. Yes, there are days when I’m making moves and taking names, and then there are

days when it feels like I’m just spinning my wheels. But that’s the grind. It’s not about being perfect; it’s about being persistent.

I’m learning to carve out time for what matters, whether that’s my business, my family, or my sanity. This isn’t about balance—it’s about prioritization. It’s about making the conscious choice to show up where it counts and to let go of the things that don’t serve me anymore. I’m not trying to do it all; I’m focused on doing what matters most.

As I continue to build this life—this business—I’m constantly reminded that it’s not about the sprint. It’s about showing up, day after day, for the things that matter. People connect with authenticity, with those who are willing to show up, flaws and all. And that’s the space I’m committed to holding.

Mornings that matter are more than just a routine—they’re a declaration of how I’m taking control of my time and my life, setting the foundation for everything that follows.